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I'AM SINGLE, A CHEF, I LOVE TO BAKE AND COOK.I HAVE BEEN DOING IT SINCE I WAS 3, WITH MY GRANDMA.MY BEST FRIEND IS JULES.SHE IS SINGLE ,BEAUTIFUL AND SMART.WE DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER.THE PHONE RINGS ON
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CAN YOU HELP ME

posted at 4/4/2010 2:36 AM EDT
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I'AM SINGLE, A CHEF, I LOVE TO BAKE AND COOK.I HAVE BEEN DOING IT SINCE I WAS 3, WITH MY GRANDMA.MY BEST FRIEND IS JULES.SHE IS SINGLE ,BEAUTIFUL AND SMART.WE DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER.THE PHONE RINGS ON A FRIDAY NIGHT, IT' S JULES.TELLING ME SHE HAS A DATE,SHE PROMISED THEM A GOURMET MEAL.THAT IS WHERE I COME IN.SHE BEGS ME "CAN YOU HELP ME".SO I DO.THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOREVER. IT BUGS ME.OR SHE INVITES HERSELF OVER MY HOUSE FOR DINNER. I GUESS I'AM A SUCKER. MY GRANDMA SAYS I'AM IN LOVE WITH HER ,MAYBE I'AM.SHE CALLED ME YESTERDAY TO MAKE HER EASTER DINNER FOR 10 PEOPLE.SHE DID NOT EVEN BUY THE FOOD.SHE WANTED ME TO DO IT ALL.I TOLD HER I COULD NOT , I'AM HELPING AT THE SHELTER. WOW WAS SHE MAD..NEEDLESS TO SAY I MET THIS NICE WOMAN , HELPING. WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON. AFTER PEELING VEGGIES,SHE ASKED ME TO JOIN HER AND SOME FRIENDS FOR EASTER DINNER..WOW, SHE CAN COOK...SHOULD I GIVE UP ON JULES? IT'S A TOUGH ONE,BUT HANNAH IS NICE.KIND TO PEOPLE.SHE MADE ME SMILE AND FEEL GREAT...HAPPY EASTER TO ALL. MAYBE IT'S A SIGN, A NEW START

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posted at 4/4/2010 3:31 AM EDT
Posts: 14
First: 9/24/2008
Last: 5/31/2010
I would suggest you ask Jules for a date; then see where it goes from there. If you don't you will always wonder. (It wouldn't surprise me thought if you end up with Hannah - she sounds great.)

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posted at 4/4/2010 4:13 AM EDT
Posts: 13
First: 10/15/2009
Last: 5/14/2010
From wher I sit, She is using you and taking advantage of your soft heart. Beleive me I think you met a good person at the function. She was there to help people not take advantage. Wise up and listen to your heart.

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posted at 4/4/2010 4:42 AM EDT
Posts: 47
First: 11/12/2008
Last: 5/8/2010
go for it ask her out and see what happens, the worst she'll say is no and then you can make up your mind and find some-one you can be happy with. life is too short to be unhappy and feel used ,good-luck

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posted at 4/4/2010 6:32 AM EDT
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First: 3/29/2010
Last: 5/22/2010
I say go for Hannah! There's nothing more sweet and romantic then being in the kitchen preparing a meal with your special someone!Happy Easter.

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posted at 4/4/2010 7:08 AM EDT
Posts: 25
First: 8/10/2008
Last: 5/14/2011
Have you even considered dating Jules? If there's a chance, try going out with jules first. Otherwise Hannah sounds GREAT. Good luck.

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posted at 4/4/2010 9:16 AM EDT
Posts: 88
First: 8/7/2008
Last: 10/4/2010
If Jules is taking advantage of your frienship now, I can only imagine how far she will push those buttons if you begin dating. Jules is interested in only one outcome--hers. You have a much better chance with a person who considers other peoples opinions and feelings also. Get better aquainted with Hannah.

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posted at 4/4/2010 10:15 AM EDT
Posts: 432
First: 2/2/2009
Last: 9/7/2012
See where it leads with the new person, Hannah. Enjoy your new found friends. If Jules is really your best friend, she will understand that you have a life outside of her and maybe she will wise up to the fact that you are not her personal chef and slave. Good luck.

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posted at 4/4/2010 10:42 AM EDT
Posts: 6
First: 8/19/2009
Last: 4/4/2010
Sounds like you have more in common with Hannah! Sounds like Jules is selfish and uses you. Looks like a no-brainer to me.

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posted at 4/4/2010 11:11 AM EDT
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First: 4/4/2010
Last: 8/5/2010
I doubt you are in love with Jules, just loyal to a fault. Not necessarily a bad thing but since it looks like this is a one sided loyalty its time to move on and make new friends. My guess is if you "have other plans" just one more time Jules will dump you anyway. Hannah may not be "the one" but you should at least see where a date or two leads.

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posted at 4/4/2010 11:29 AM EDT
Posts: 16
First: 3/18/2010
Last: 4/8/2010
You might love Jules, but know this. She is a selfish user. You need no enemies with friends like that. Date Hannah if she will go out with you. It might not lead to anything, but it will get your mind off Jules for a while. Jules might change her tune if she finds out that you have a new friend that will actually help with the cooking.

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posted at 4/4/2010 11:53 AM EDT
Posts: 1821
First: 9/9/2008
Last: 4/18/2014
Jules sounds like dead weight! Anybody who would ask a good friend to not only cook a dinner for 10 but provide all the food needs their own personal PAID chef! Or she needs to go to a grocery store and buy a pre-made dinner.

Since you are such a giving person, I think Hannah sounds like a much better match for you. Good luck and GOD bless.

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posted at 4/4/2010 11:56 AM EDT
Posts: 23
First: 8/25/2008
Last: 10/26/2010
Go for Hannah, Honey. She sounds like a keeper.

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posted at 4/4/2010 1:34 PM EDT
Posts: 14
First: 3/20/2010
Last: 4/22/2010
Hannah is the way to go. She makes you smile. That is a sure sign of happiness. Your love of cooking is a sign of compatibility. Just think of the quality time you would share. I say dump Jules and grab Hannah before it is too late. Enid Baggett 04/04/2010

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posted at 4/4/2010 1:50 PM EDT
Posts: 4
First: 2/19/2010
Last: 4/4/2010
Go with Hannah. She seems to have the same values as you do. Ask her out. And remember, be a gentleman. W

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posted at 4/4/2010 2:31 PM EDT
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Posts: 86
First: 8/8/2008
Last: 10/16/2011
Easter is a time of renewal, a time for all things new. I would suggest going on a Date with Hannha!

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posted at 4/4/2010 3:05 PM EDT
Posts: 1
First: 4/4/2010
Last: 4/4/2010
Happy Easter to all! I think you already know the answer to your question. Obviously Hannah would seem to be the better choice for you and Jules seems to be using your culinary skills to her advantage. Go with what your heart tells you.

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posted at 4/4/2010 3:31 PM EDT
Posts: 14
First: 10/24/2008
Last: 6/21/2010
WOW - you got a lot of opinions and I must follow the crowd. I think you should not ask Jules to go out with you - my guess would be that she would decline anyway. Move on to Hannah or any other girl that you could be interested in dating. I have had many good friends that were guys. I, however did not treat them shabby (which I think Jules is doing), but they were just that, friends. I wouldn't date them but I certainly treasure their friendship.

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posted at 4/4/2010 3:43 PM EDT
Posts: 170
First: 10/21/2008
Last: 3/3/2011
Go with your gut. You deserve someone nice and worthy of all your vallent efforts, as a chef, man, and good person. happy Easter, good luck, and keep us posted!

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posted at 4/4/2010 4:26 PM EDT
Posts: 1
First: 4/4/2010
Last: 4/4/2010
Of course you should let Jules.. kinda sorta go...
Hannah has included "YOU" and Jules, well, is kinda like a sister? I say that cuz I have a sister that I'll "cook" for... I don't want to judge Jules as I don't know what is really going on between you two.. but after all this time, if all you are is the "help".. well, good friends you may well be.. BUT (Behold the Ultimate Truth)... life is but a vapor! and you seem to be a generous person. Don't let this "taint" you, or cause you to be bitter, just see this as "new" direction. My prayer are with you. :)
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